星期日, 3月 17, 2013
星期日, 3月 10, 2013
如此相互扞格
路很小很窄,車行不順,走走停停,有人按喇叭也改變不了路兩旁剛停好車的。看了看,這早餐店旁的大車小車,大部份都是要買早餐。那家電行前的小貨車,大喇喇停在那兒,好像要宣告自己的勢力範圍一樣。這街道兩旁堂皇放置的各式車輛,不論是臨停或長期的,在台灣各地應該都被視為理所當然了。
這舊街道據說是往日的交通要道,行人牛車往來不絶,兩旁的商家生意也很興旺;現在的老街道,看來是沒有規劃來回應現代的汽機車所形成的車流;兩旁的商店也似乎失去了往日的商機。
可惜....若有整體的規劃,若有恰當的執法,若有大家的配合,商家和消費者,用路人和行人,都能共同獲利,而非如此相互扞格。
Inside a maze
問他,何時失去了那份眼中對學習的光采? 何時失去那初進教室時,和同學舉手搶答的快樂....
"當學校的考卷功課和一切的一切,都是為了學測指考...在父母和老師的[好學校代表好出路]的教訓中,決定放掉心中最愛那一刻。
那個決定是安全的,那是孝順的,那是孺子可教的, 卻不知為何, 心中總覺得有個地方空了。 "
袛有標準答案的考卷, 容不下好奇心的無盡探索。
加油
最近中午排了幾個面對面的個別約談, 給小朋友加油, 和建議 - 若讀本太多, 回歸到基本的課本內容(複習卷)和單字7000, 設立合理的進步目標, 也適時為自己加油打氣..... 學測將近, 加油喔!!
另二個同樣讓人掛心怗記的, 一個去了日本遊學團, 一個還在為社團活動拼命,四處奔波....等他們有空, 等他們不再有公假公差和國外遊學, 還是要請他們來辦公室聽我嘮叨一番。
So i have arranged a meeting with a few during the lunch break in the office to how them my concerns over their academic performance in school. A simple smile and a reminder of what they should pay attention to are emphasized. Remind them to reshape their studying strategies and narrow down scopes. So far have been able to make some grasp the point that time and tie wait for no people.
另二個同樣讓人掛心怗記的, 一個去了日本遊學團, 一個還在為社團活動拼命,四處奔波....等他們有空,
So i have arranged a meeting with a few during the lunch break in the office to how them my concerns over their academic performance in school. A simple smile and a reminder of what they should pay attention to are emphasized. Remind them to reshape their studying strategies and narrow down scopes. So far have been able to make some grasp the point that time and tie wait for no people.
However, there are still two missing - one is on a study-tour in Japan; the other is totally committed to club activities. If and when they return, I sure will ask them to have a chat with me....

Patience
Bad batteries
其中一個,問清楚他的作答已結束,請他出來.....告
While students took a review quiz in the morning, I went to have a look. One class needed immediate attention, and, without causing alarms, I walked in to send a signal to a few that were using their cell-phones. Why.... Why do children grow up in different ways? Why some flourish, while others don't do that well? ......Is it true that teens, most of them, lack self-discipline? This lack of incentives and motives may stem from an abundance of material supplies?
自製三明治
小女兒晚上睡覺前,提出人意料之外的要求--不要穿紙尿 布;可能因為白天她可以自己上厠所,開始覺得晚上也不要 包那一包尿布。緃使屁股上被賞了重重二巴掌,還是一臉鼻 涕和眼淚的堅持要求:不要穿紙尿布!她的認真表情和決絶 語氣,真是令人好氣又好笑。經過商量後,決定提前給小女 兒試試看不包尿布睡覺,也搬出[保潔墊]放在床墊上來預 防萬一。
大女兒對自製三明治的評價:蛋皮太厚(爸爸準備的);美 奶滋太少(媽媽再加一層)。不過,還不錯吃。謝謝媽媽。
Last night, before sleeping, Lisa, our little daughter, requested that she should sleep without wearing a diaper. She is now able to go without diapers during daytime; that nighttime diaper is just an insurance. Even though her bottom quickly received two slaps, she was still holding to that demand with tears in her eyes. After a quick discussion, it was decided then she should be given a chance, albeit a bit early. It is a bit funny to see her stating her demand with that resolute face full of tears, and with a solemn face that you find in a grown-up.
大女兒對自製三明治的評價:蛋皮太厚(爸爸準備的);美
Last night, before sleeping, Lisa, our little daughter, requested that she should sleep without wearing a diaper. She is now able to go without diapers during daytime; that nighttime diaper is just an insurance. Even though her bottom quickly received two slaps, she was still holding to that demand with tears in her eyes. After a quick discussion, it was decided then she should be given a chance, albeit a bit early. It is a bit funny to see her stating her demand with that resolute face full of tears, and with a solemn face that you find in a grown-up.
單親家庭的難處
太座不在家這二天,再次體驗單親家庭的難處。白天要忙, 下班後要接小孩/幫小朋友洗澡/洗衣服/ 洗餐具,檢查小朋友的功課/ 聮絡簿,順便準備明早的早餐......小女兒晚上還咳到 完全沒辦法睡覺.... 早上出門前,也是如同打仗般的忙......還好我們家 的媽媽回來了!
While my wife was away on a business trip, went through what a single-parent family would go through everyday. After a hectic workday, must proceed to picking up kids, helping them get a bath, doing the laundry and dishes, checking their homework and preparing for tomorrow's breakfast.... Our little daughter had a bad cold and she couldn't sleep well at night. Glad our mama is home again.
星期五, 2月 15, 2013
糖果
你看,袛要有心,一根糖果也是可以很有內容的。
所附連結的心理學實驗中,明示一件事實: 若懂得心理學原則,並能在特定的環境中,給予'適當'的命令和要求,絕大多數的人,會執行所謂的"命令"...而不會質疑這個權力/命令的正當性,或是執行後是否有人受害,.....
而身在大環境或團體之中的你我,有許多實驗條件和命題都不是我等所能控制或被明確告知的;但若能由細節中來反思並洞察整體架構和被設計過的"選擇",或許我們有機會可以不再隨波逐流,不再隨便盲從,並能真正明瞭自己的決定。
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實驗所引起最主要的評論不在於實驗方法的倫理爭議,而在於實驗所代表的意義。一位在1961年的耶魯大學參與者在Jewish Currents雜誌上寫道,當他在擔任「老師」的中途想要停止時,便是懷疑到「整個實驗可能只是設計好,為了測試尋常美國民眾會不會遵從命令違背道德良心—如同德國人在納粹時期一樣」而這便是實驗的初衷之一。米爾格倫在他《服從的危險》一書中便稱:「我們所面臨的問題便是,我們在實驗室裡所製造的使人服從權力的環境,與我們所痛責的納粹時代之間有怎麼樣的關聯。」............
http://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/米尔格拉姆实验
小心謹慎
剛剛去7-11繳款,拿了蓋完店章的信用卡帳單和電信費
哎~我怎麼日子過的這麼小心謹慎啊。
這成績?
在試題讀卡成績出爐後,出現了如此對話:
"這孩子平時小考成績差,作業也亂寫,上課睡覺叫不醒,
"看考試時是誰監考吧~"
"本想說是這學生開始奮發向上了,可是手寫題一題都沒動
"那個監考坐前面看雜誌的,學生其實也會看啦,真是差勁
感恩珍惜
This doggy bag is a way to say to them that we cherish what we have now, and they didn't die in vain.
我,不敢不願也不會忘記你們所付出的一切;也會告訴孩子 們,餐桌上每一口食物,得來如此不易,應要感恩珍惜。
我,不敢不願也不會忘記你們所付出的一切;也會告訴孩子
星期六, 1月 12, 2013
國殤日......
這些花,是給那些在國共內戰中,不幸被捲入戰火的平民百姓同胞;國殤日......也許這個國家能抛開彼此成見,是在彼此同願同心同悲之時。國共內戰是場悲劇,死去的同胞,應被紀念。他們的逝去,應以鮮花音樂和紀念日/碑紀念。那些開啓戰端的元兇生前擁有權力財勢,死後還有紀念堂和國定紀念日?若有紀念堂,裏頭鮮花供奉儀隊致敬的應是那些逝去的無數人民百姓,而不是個.......政治無賴漢。這塊土地和人民,應有一個國殤日,哀悼早逝的青春,來不及長大的小孩和那些未能完成的夢想.....
星期二, 1月 01, 2013
Wish You Success
Wish you all a wonderful new year. Fight like the rising sun, steady and invincible. Walk like the morning breeze, cool and pleasant. And live like a tree, tall and strong.
星期六, 12月 29, 2012
Struggles and Protests
Struggles and protests forge a nation's soul, awake people from that daily stupor, and free people from mundane constrains, to what really matters.
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A Nation's Architecture
A nation's soul presents itself in the visible and tangible form of architecture. A nation preserves its historical buildings because these buildings host its people's common memory, or history. A country that does not preserves its old buildings, is condemned to suffer from loss of memory, forgetting where they come from and which direction they should go.
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A Young Damsel
You see. This paradigm of a young damsel, letting go of every piece of her, looking for an near-impossible romance, and reflecting many, if not all, young ladies' heart, shows itself in arts and everywhere you look.
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Mothers, Beware
One particular strong drive behind a person's deed comes from stories. Stories chanted, stories remembered, and stories told all build an everlasting image or paradigm that people follow subconsciously.
What stories mothers tell decide what their children may follow or avoid. A story that all mothers tell to their children is a story that reflects common themes, fears or desires within a particular people.
A country without traditional stories, or paradigms, is a country subjected to the influences of other cultures. A country which could build their own fables and children's stories is a country that has its own soul.
Political emblems and all that ubiquitous propaganda vanish as soon as their masters are out of power simply because they're not true and faithful to the nation's heart and soul.
That soul, though intangible, has the power to revive a country after 2000 years of wondering. That soul, though seemingly vulnerable, makes a world of brave samurais and devoted mothers. That very soul dictates a nation's direction, and ultimately, its destiny.
Then, are there any children's stories that you still remember? Or, do you recall only what Disney Channel has been broadcasting? Mothers, beware of the stories you tell, for they may very well make up your children's character and destiny.
What stories mothers tell decide what their children may follow or avoid. A story that all mothers tell to their children is a story that reflects common themes, fears or desires within a particular people.
A country without traditional stories, or paradigms, is a country subjected to the influences of other cultures. A country which could build their own fables and children's stories is a country that has its own soul.
Political emblems and all that ubiquitous propaganda vanish as soon as their masters are out of power simply because they're not true and faithful to the nation's heart and soul.
That soul, though intangible, has the power to revive a country after 2000 years of wondering. That soul, though seemingly vulnerable, makes a world of brave samurais and devoted mothers. That very soul dictates a nation's direction, and ultimately, its destiny.
Then, are there any children's stories that you still remember? Or, do you recall only what Disney Channel has been broadcasting? Mothers, beware of the stories you tell, for they may very well make up your children's character and destiny.
星期四, 12月 20, 2012
Sony ICF B03 and Philips (AE1120) 開箱文
商品的比較 Sony ICF B03 and Philips (AE1120)
----請看兩者設計上的用心程度: 電池蓋設計--一個是雙層防水半固定式;另一個是非固定 式單層蓋,容易脫落,且電池糟內電池裝入後容易翹起。
Please note the difference between the battery covers. One is securely attached and the other comes off easily.
想問的是---PChome 是國內的大型購物網站,為何拿不到質精料美,價錢佳的貨 品? Sony 這台,功能佳,設計貼心,附件多,(到手價格2120, 內含抽佣500,快遞120; 附件有攜行繩/攜行袋/ 手機插座轉接器和連接線,甚至還附上一個黃色的求救口哨) ; 反觀 Philips的機子,單單價格就要2450!!! 圖中的攜行繩也不是它附贈的..........真心希 望國內的購物公司,能真的替廣大的消費者多著想,多爭取 好的產品和價格。
----請看兩者設計上的用心程度: 電池蓋設計--一個是雙層防水半固定式;另一個是非固定
Please note the difference between the battery covers. One is securely attached and the other comes off easily.
想問的是---PChome 是國內的大型購物網站,為何拿不到質精料美,價錢佳的貨
星期三, 12月 19, 2012
Household chore
國文古文選沒一篇文章有提,世界各地歷史文獻上也沒記載,洗碗,特別是冬天用手洗碗,真是.......TMD 千古萬難呀。
It is such a torture to do dishes "by hand" in this cold winter season.
政戰系統

記得有一回,打師對抗時,在山腳下挖陣地,抬頭聽到連長開玩笑的問輔導長,"打仗時,輔仔,你手上的槍是對著誰?"
手持干戈的軍人除了有保家衛國的使命/不斷的訓練和莒光日教育之外,其實身旁都有古稱"監軍",當今稱為"細胞"的政戰士官兵......
這些細胞,明的和大家是好朋友....可是私下真正的心態,完全是上級對下級的"管理和掌控" ..平時和你稱兄道弟,一臉笑容可掬地...可是背地裏,你可能袛是他的監視報告對象之一,袛是個業務項目。而你說的每一句怨言和家裏剛買的東西,都是他向上報告的內容。
報告內容往那兒去? 每個服役的士官兵,都有一個忠誠資料袋;這文件資料夾內,除了你自個兒寫的身家資料,其它一張張,都是別人針對你每一段時間,每一件重大事件的"觀察報告"。在職業軍人的昇遷調職中,"忠誠度"和"思想內容"都會被列入考核。可是,考核你的人是你看不到的,考核項目和分數,你也沒有申訴的管道。
另一種報告的結果,倒很明顯:晚點名就寢後,若晚上突然有急哨有口令,要人人下床,床前立正站好,接著連上某些幹部進來瘋狂的翻床翻內務櫃的搜東西,那是接到了報告,要找違禁品。這時,輔導長和政戰士,就會在這混亂中盯著找著他們的目標物。
輔導長和政戰士,是明的編制....細胞-或是政治作戰士兵,是暗的; 因為這回報內容裏,若有"實質收獲" 或是"配合得當",都會有獎勵 -- 榮譽假/獎金/記功等等...另有些"福利",你我可能聽都沒聽過(退伍後的"無名"海外高額獎學金/有固定薪給的某某基金會"志工"--工作內容無外乎回報特定對象的情資等等).....重賞之下..這些細胞都很願意配合。
考核眾人的,卻沒有人可以制衡...獎金拿慣了,若沒獎金時? ......結果? 對岸就找到一個可以弄到真正機密文件資料,又是管保防的下手....當然也是用錢來買他的忠誠....
......也難怪,當初有名將挑明了說,不希望他部隊有這種事情這個編制....
.......誰言一朝天子一朝臣;呼誓漢賊不兩立?
君不見那顏色迭更替,六朝賢臣永帝寶。
可憐馬革裹屍臣,誰見戰場丹心碧血情!
Gold and Youth
Both gold and youth are splendid and dazzling.
Yet, you can not buy youth with gold.
(For arts' sake, i took this artistic picture without its owner's consent. Mr. Ryan, please forgive my rudeness, for I couldn't find a better picture to match this statement.)— 與 Ryan Angkor
"無用物"
記得國小時,曾有一回,某個富有又慈祥的鄰居順手給了我 一個蠻精美的"無用物"。我歡天喜地的把它放在家中某個 顯眼之處,就像是要向全天下人炫耀自己是一個多麼富有的 小孩一樣。後來就跑出門找街坊玩伴玩耍去了,一整個下午 的無憂無慮。返家後,發現那個美麗的"無用物"由原位消 失了。原來是媽媽將它丟了,因為是舊的,是沒有用的,因 為是華麗的,和家裏擺設格格不入的。就袛是一個打掃過程 的必然結果。
而小孩如我,很不甘心的哭呀鬧的;好像一陣哭鬧後,結果 會不一樣似的。
長大後,這些年,這旅途中也曾偶然看到精美動人的"無用 物";它們也不知如何的,就忽然出現,也忽然消失在生命 中;"無用物"消失的那麼乾脆,那麼的無影無踪,那麼的 無可挽回。但那被勾動的心弦,波動不止,時時刻刻提醒你 ,折磨著你-看呀!那些如果若能維持著,是件多麼美好的 事情呀;你看,你錯失了什麼!假如你......
現在,知曉某些道理之後,看過不少別人的態度後,對這些 偶而出現的"無用物"倒還蠻看的開的。心情調適的也快, 一轉身就忘了,像個八九十歲的老頭兒,心無波瀾的繼續那 日常的生活,那日常的動作。如此這般的平心靜氣,如此認 命的活著。這算是一種成長還是認命的放手呢?
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照片中是一包裝精美的洋菇培養包,要給女兒當表現良好, 故事朗讀比賽拿到佳作的獎勵的;另外一包培養包,順便回 禮給常常拿二手童衣給我的同事,因為這些料好質美的小孩 衣服,替我們家省了一筆開銷。謝謝。
而小孩如我,很不甘心的哭呀鬧的;好像一陣哭鬧後,結果
長大後,這些年,這旅途中也曾偶然看到精美動人的"無用
現在,知曉某些道理之後,看過不少別人的態度後,對這些
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照片中是一包裝精美的洋菇培養包,要給女兒當表現良好,
星期五, 11月 09, 2012
快樂歌咏

神呀,就讓大樹倒下吧,
讓樹苗們,忘了自己的種族,認不出自己的國界,
就用笑容為國旗,使夢想成為憲法,以熱血為基準,向天空奔馳。
倒下吧,大樹
在大地上放下你的身軀,讓陽光灑入,讓樹苗成長
讓樹苗成長,倒下吧
讓春夏秋冬,讓太陽月亮輕撫你身軀,再讓大地為你鋪上暖被
讓樹苗忘了你的名,忘了你的仇,忘了你的愛。
你我的名字,你我的仇恨,你我的愛怨,擋住陽光
孩子們也學著你我的名字你我的仇恨,互相憎恨
這森林的孩子們,看不見陽光和希望,失去笑容和夢想。
就讓一切重頭
讓小樹們,忘了自己的父母,認不出自己的國界,以世界為家
用笑容為國旗,使夢想成為憲法,以熱血當基準,為未來努力。
不再有國界和他們,讓小樹們同唱一首歌,同聲歌頌太陽/風和雨的滋潤呀。
大樹你別難過,
這片青空會為你歌唱為你哭泣,
我也會和你一起躺下,為你啍唱那首睡眠曲。
輕輕的,我們一起入睡吧。
我們的名字,你我的仇恨,你我的愛,都忘了吧。
輕輕的,我們一起入睡吧。那一切,都忘了吧。
讓樹苗忘了你的名,忘了你的仇,忘了你的愛。
也許,當我們再次起身迎向陽光時,不再相互仇視,
不再分你我那一國,不再有心頭傷痛,可以相視而笑,
可以像小樹一樣,一同攜手,放聲快樂歌咏,這片如此美麗的青空與大地的恩竉。
星期日, 11月 04, 2012
一群小魚
A neighbor gave us some guppies and they quickly gave birth to a school of small guppies. Lisa and Joy, love these million fish.
鄰居給我們一批孔雀魚,放到魚缸中,很快就生下一群小魚。小朋友開心的很,特別是小的Lisa,因為是她接回家的魚魚。
Education, Brainwashing and Confirmation in Individuals
The bugle is sounding, the crowd is roaring and it is only fitting to follow the drummer in this marching. Your body and soul seem work in unison with the whole crowd and you are being brainwashed. There are moments in life when one chooses what to believe in his/her whole life. Be it a radical political gathering, a traumatic experience to survive a disaster or a war, or a moment when one chooses to confront a pistol regardless of one's life. Moments like these confirm one's internal values and make us who we are throughout our life.
The issue is whether this decision is based on one's free will, or just an inevitable 'next step' in a 'calculated,' staged setting. Nazi youth rallies are often used as examples in setting up a stage to unite and consolidate its believers. These rallies created monsters who would commit horrendous crimes against humanity.
Some of the staunchest Nazi officers would go as far as murdering babies and children to achieve what they believed to be divine and holy.
There is nothing divine and holy in killing babies and children. And they did it. Simply because they believed it was 'correct.'
What has it got to do with you? You may ask. Advertisement and political propaganda all ask the same result with different degrees of persuasion techniques and brain-washing tactics employed in these Nazi Youth Rallies. Whereas, an liberal education, when it is notorious for its lax structure and failing to instill specific aims, requires one's thinking and regurgitating of what has been presented. Only through constant thinking and examining what is in front of one's eyes can one gain the true freedom of making a responsible choice. Knowing this would free one from the invisible shackles imposed by others, help one see the value of independent thinking and most importantly, aid one's confirmation of what is right and wrong. Such is education.
星期三, 10月 24, 2012
衷心祝願
今日一景, 我衷心祝願, 孩子笑容時時在, 戰爭永不來。
And this I pray, that children may sing with a joyful heart, and war should never come.
星期二, 10月 23, 2012
躲貓貓
This morning started well, and my kids and i even had a chance to do the dishes together. Next, the remote control that she held in hand moments ago went missing. So, I told her we needed to find it or we couldn't really find the TV cartoon channel. During this roughly 30 minute hide-and-seek game, I gave her a lecture on the importance of keeping things in their usual place. When we finally l
ocated that remote control in a corner, that facial expression on her face told me that she may have really learned the reason behind that house rule.
太座出差勤,早上帶孩子,從準備早餐/吃飯/ 一起洗碗,一切順利; 袛是,我們家大姐不知怎麼回事,找不到她剛才拿在手上的 電視遙控器 0..0 心想就順便機會教育一下(平時要求物有定位,也好省下找 東西的時間),要她一定要找出來(不然她也沒法兒看她愛 的卡通)也沒刻意幫她找,這30來分的時間內,督促她找 東西,也拿著掃把,將客廳打掃一回....後來,在客廳 角落裏的玩具收納裏找到....這回,由她臉上的表情來 看,她應不會再亂扔東西了。
錢包遙控器和鑰匙,是否也常和你玩躲貓貓?
太座出差勤,早上帶孩子,從準備早餐/吃飯/
錢包遙控器和鑰匙,是否也常和你玩躲貓貓?
台灣長尾水青蛾
晚上出門交水電費,7-11門外遇上美麗的台灣長尾水青 蛾。它的體形真是優美,令人驚艷。許多人都拿出高性能相 機拍照,手上袛有簡單的手機,袛能留下這張照片。
Tonight had a wonderful chance to see a beautiful moth. She is a beautiful one, and her shape and colors are truly heavenly made. It is a pity I didn't have any high-performance camera with me. Took this picture with a five-year-old camera phone.
http://www.nkps.tp.edu.tw/00075/nature/insects/moth-longtail.htm
Tonight had a wonderful chance to see a beautiful moth. She is a beautiful one, and her shape and colors are truly heavenly made. It is a pity I didn't have any high-performance camera with me. Took this picture with a five-year-old camera phone.
http://www.nkps.tp.edu.tw/00075/nature/insects/moth-longtail.htm
星期二, 10月 09, 2012
記於十月十日
"她的日常生活/她的喜怒哀樂/她內外的美好特質,會引起你的注意,一點都不令人意外。可是...乖女兒呀......他們也不盡然全是那麼優秀的;在某些層面上,其實他們就和我們一樣,也有缺陷的。....她的父親,和其它千萬個父親,在國家至上的威權教育下,成為國家機器的一部份,攻擊侵略鄰近國家,也因如此死在戰場上。"
在那個沒有個人,袛有國家的年代,持反對意見者被冠以叛國罪名,或被卑劣處決或強制軟禁而失去自由;那些其它的人,失去個人選擇和意志,被塗上一致的顏色,被要求整齊一致揮動一面旗子....
他們是好人嗎? 不是...是壞人嗎? 也不盡然...孩子,你看,紅花坂上,每一天,昇起的是一個女兒期望父親回家的心聲,並不是那面國旗。那是個如此沈重的抗議呀!
我和你母親對你的期許,希望你能平安長大,發揮才能,追求你的夢想,也讓整個社會能由你的努力,互利互惠而成就更好的未來。切記!切記!國家二字不能超越人民意志。更不能讓披著愛國主義狼皮的獨裁者來左右你的生命,操控你的選擇!!!
『人總是活在矛盾之中~對人類的絕望以及信賴~ 我們都是在這狹縫間生存~ 』
記於十月十日
星期五, 8月 31, 2012
機會就是給有準備好的人啦
打了一手好牌
"A, 你聽說了嗎?"
"什麼事?"
"L這回又要帶人去參加小兵中區初賽;而且這回聽說上頭拿了不少采頭出來。"
"M桑不是上個月在忙這回事?聽說徵人時,小朋友聽到週六日都要來訓練/沒有經費的前提下,個個都打退堂鼓了嗎?那來的參賽呀?"
"廢話,假如通知你比賽,而準備時間僅有一個半月;除非你有長遠的準備--超過三年的經驗/去年的班底,不然就算給你出隊,不是帶人去含淚鼓掌歡送其它有專班訓練的學校嗎。而且她 把發球權一直都捏在手上,今天[出賽權]當下丟給你是她說"這次輪到你";連著那些年不丟給你,也是她說"要增加有出賽勝利的把握!"
"哇! 這這這好像三國演義某一章節喔!!!"
"你看,機會就是給有準備好的人啦。這回你知道人家怎樣向上頭要資源/又可以踩別人的方法了哦。"
星期日, 8月 26, 2012
價錢真嚇人
Like
深怕嚇跑顧客,賣牛肉的拼命說我們的不是美國牛。那個按讚的機器,可能很快就會出現在許多許多地方。不曉得有無可能全公司職員桌上和學生桌上都裝一個。
Beef-burger sellers emphasize the fact that they don't sell American beef. "It's 100% Australian!" That 'like' button has materialized itself in the real world. Guess it will make its presence more noticeable around you and me. Do you 'like' it on your office desk?
星期一, 8月 13, 2012
專心一意的學習
今天上課,刻意的放慢步調,要求學生閉上眼,將呼吸調緩,清空心 底雜念,用一份寧靜的心情,將空中英語教室的朗讀,在心裏頭,轉 化為一份專心。因為專心一意的學習,是一份快樂;今日在課堂上, 確實的將此訊息傳達了給學生。
In today's class, deliberately slowed down pace, and asked kids to close their eyes, and regulate their breathing to clear up all those passing thoughts popping up here and there inside their mind. Then, with an air of calmness inside the class, they started that concentrated process of learning - listening to a lesson with their ears and hearts only. Today, instead of just following up that hectic and demanding curriculum, I followed students' heartbeats. This, I hope, would help students understand the idea that learning is such a wonderful thing.
In today's class, deliberately slowed down pace, and asked kids to close their eyes, and regulate their breathing to clear up all those passing thoughts popping up here and there inside their mind. Then, with an air of calmness inside the class, they started that concentrated process of learning - listening to a lesson with their ears and hearts only. Today, instead of just following up that hectic and demanding curriculum, I followed students' heartbeats. This, I hope, would help students understand the idea that learning is such a wonderful thing.
星期日, 8月 12, 2012
人之常情篇--器量
他那麼快的舉起手指責他人,這是意料之內;在被指出這是無地放矢 ,毫無事實根據而胡亂地指責之後,若他能說聲對不起,承認自己有 錯,那方才是意料之外,這人才是有所容納的大器。------< 人之常情篇>
星期六, 8月 11, 2012
人這種生物
那不服輸的鬥爭之心,高二第一次段考後,在B君的眼神中出現,特別當他看到那個每次名次都排在前的H君,對那個全班第一名,絲亳一點都不在意。
之前,高一時,連續在班上的高分群中領先,B早已習慣其它人的羨慕眼光; 這一回的落敗,反而讓B更願意付出更多的心力,上課時更努力的發問。因為"第一名"應該是她的。
那個W君, 加入某社團球隊後,卻刻意的放掉高分群的位置,袛為同伴的"接受"。隨著家長工作不斷變換學校的ABC,"朋友"是比什麼都重要的存在;即使家中衣食無缺,身為海外學人的孩子,他卻無法在同一學校讀完課程。朋友二字,對這孩子而言,是如此珍貴。
人這種生物,別人的言語或外加的刑罰是無法改變的,可能窮其一生都在追求心中企求之物,至死方休呀。
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